When the Adoption Journey Feels Too Difficult to Keep Going

“We’re exhausted. We’ve presented more times than we can count. Why would God lead us to adoption only to meet us with ‘no’ after ‘no’?” The adoption process can be filled with ups and downs that few people truly understand. If you’re feeling weary in the waiting, this encouragement is for you.

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Adopting Again? Here's 7 Questions To Ask First

If you’ve already walked through adoption once, you may find yourself wondering if God is stirring your heart to grow your family again. Before stepping back into the process, here are seven thoughtful questions to help you prayerfully discern if now is the right time.

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From Five Months of Waiting to Holding Their Baby Boy: Jeff and Shari's Adoption Story

After just five months of waiting, Jeff and Shari received the life-changing call that they had been chosen to become parents to a one-month-old baby boy. Within 24 hours they were holding their son in their arms, witnessing firsthand how God had been writing their story all along.

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When God Writes a Different Story: Brittany and Michael’s Adoption Journey

After walking through infertility, miscarriages, and a difficult medical diagnosis for their son, Brittany and Michael found themselves praying about what the future of their family might look like. Through seasons of grief, waiting, and surrendering their plans to God, their adoption journey eventually led them to the baby girl they had been praying for.

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When the Wait Feels Long: Joe and Carrie’s Adoption Story

After nearly ten years of trying to grow their family, Joe and Carrie were weary but still holding onto hope. Less than a year after reaching out for guidance, they received the life-changing news that they had been chosen to become parents to boy and girl twins.

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From Waiting to “Yes”: Eric and Marissa’s Adoption Story

Like many families pursuing adoption, Eric and Marissa experienced the ups and downs that often come with the journey. Through seasons of waiting, hope, and perseverance, their story ultimately led them to the little boy who would become their son.

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From Infertility and Loss to Adoption: Megan and Clayton’s Story

After three years of infertility, miscarriages, surgeries, and countless prayers, Megan and Clayton wondered how their family would grow. Through faith, obedience, and trusting God with the unknown, their journey eventually led them to the baby girl they had been praying for.

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Trusting God Through Infertility and Adoption: Blaine and Tyler’s Story

After walking through infertility and countless questions about how their family would grow, Blaine and Tyler began to feel their hearts open to adoption. Through seasons of waiting, prayer, and learning to trust God with the unknown, their journey eventually led them to the son who would complete their family.

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From IVF and Loss to Adoption: Holden and Melissa’s Journey to Their Twin Boys

After years of infertility, IVF, and heartbreaking loss, Holden and Melissa began to wonder how their family would grow. Through seasons of waiting, doubt, and renewed faith, their adoption journey ultimately led them to the twin boys who would complete their family.

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From Infertility to Adoption: Kirk and Mandy’s Story

After years of infertility and failed treatments, Kirk and Mandy began exploring adoption and eventually welcomed their daughter into their family. Years later, their hearts were drawn back to adoption once again, leading them to their son and completing the family God had always planned for them.

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What Is Embryo Adoption? A Guide for Families Considering This Path

Embryo adoption is a unique and life-affirming path for families hoping to grow their family through adoption. In this guide, we explain what embryo adoption is, why so many embryos remain frozen in storage, and how our Embryo Adoption Program helps families navigate this journey with support and guidance.

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7 Reasons Families Choose to Work With an Adoption Consultant

You are ready to start the adoption process, but where do you begin? When my husband and I made the decision to move forward with growing our family through adoption, we were extremely excited! But, as we began researching our options, we realized there was so much about the process that we were completely clueless about!  After a few weeks of unfruitful research and trying to do it on our own, we discovered it was much more complex than we anticipated. We needed a map and a guide to help us navigate our journey.

A few of my friends had worked with Christian Adoption Consultants (CAC), and we had heard amazing reviews about the services and care they provide their families. After speaking on the phone with a consultant, we signed on with CAC the very next day! I tell everyone that working with CAC was by far the easiest and best decision we made in our adoption journey! Now I have the honor and privilege of guiding families through their own adoptive journey.

Here are 7 reasons why families choose to work with CAC:

  1. Multiple Agency Networking– We direct families to apply with trustworthy agencies and attorneys in adoption-friendly states. At CAC, we also receive referrals from adoption agencies and attorneys looking for adoptive families.

  2. Education & Guidance– There is more to adoption than the act itself. There is a lot to be learned along the way. At CAC, we are passionate about adoption education, and so we provide many opportunities for our families to grow in this area. We walk with our families throughout their entire 14-month contract and provide them with a step-by-step Adoptive Parent Guide Book-a resource that takes families through the entire adoption process. Our families are provided with monthly newsletters covering topics such as open adoption, positive adoption language, and encouragement for the wait.

  3. Experienced Professionals– We’ve been around since 2006 and, since that time, have helped over 4,000 families with successful adoptions. We are one of the largest, oldest, and most experienced adoption consulting companies in the world! Our staff at CAC have over 120 years of combined adoption experience. We have two licensed social workers on staff and 8 team members who have experience working at adoption agencies. Our founders have also launched licensed adoption agencies, so they have a broad understanding of adoption, depth of knowledge in regard to licensing requirements, legal processes of adoption, and how agencies operate.

  4. Personal Experience-Most of our staff are adoptive clients and/or former clients of CAC. We have two Adoptees on staff who provide consultations for our families. They have an opportunity to sit with them over the phone, hear their story, learn from their perspective and ask questions. We have a staff that is passionate about adoption and who genuinely care about our clients! We understand the difficulties, joys, and challenges associated with the adoption process because we have walked through some of them ourselves.

  5. Shorter Wait Time– The average wait time for a match after a family’s home study is complete is 7-12 months. Some families match sooner than the average time, while other families take longer. Using a multi-agency approach and a personal advocate is the best way to cast a wider net of opportunities in the adoption process.

  6. Personal Advocate– As a consultant, we assist families in finding the right agency and adoption situation for their family. Additionally, we will help our clients navigate the warning signs to reduce the levels of risks associated with the adoption process. I love being a part of a team that prays consistently for not only the hopeful adoptive parents but the expectant mamas and birth families, as well.

  7. Financial Advice– Adoption can be expensive. We provide families with resources and tools on how to fund their adoption through grants, loans, tax benefits, and fundraising.

From the moment we signed on with CAC, it’s as if a heavy weight was lifted off of our shoulders. We knew where the final destination was, but we were clueless about how to get there. CAC provided us with the map we needed and guided us every step of the way. 

Thinking about adoption? I’d love to help. Fill out the short form here to receive my free adoption information packet and get access to my online adoption library with 20+ posts and videos that walk you through the process. You’ll also have the opportunity to schedule a free 30-minute call where we can talk through your questions and what this journey could look like for your family.



After Years of Waiting, God Led John & Molly to Their Daughter

After years of feeling called to adoption, Molly and John stepped forward in faith to grow their family. Their journey was filled with waiting, difficult “no’s,” and learning to trust God through every step. In the end, the daughter they had prayed for was worth every moment of the wait.

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